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There are a lot of things I want to say. In fact, I’ve been writing notes to Casey every night since his last admission to the hospital. I’m struggling – struggling because I can make it through the days, because I don’t spend all of my time crying, because I still laugh, because I still live. I feel all of the things and none of the things. I’m surrounded by people and I’m busy arranging things, so I’m okay until I stop to breathe or I lie down to sleep or look at old photos. I feel strange and sorrowful and empty and full. I feel things I don’t understand. But I’m not ready to share it all. I don’t know if I’ll ever be ready. So instead, I’ll share this obituary, this meager piece I wrote about Casey, this token that I’ll send out into the world. It’s nothing, but it’s all I have right now. I love him now, I loved him then, I’ll love him always.

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Casey Charles Underwood, age 32, of Cypress was called Home on December 24, 2019 after a long battle with cancer, which he fought valiantly for five years. He was born April 4, 1987 to David and Teresa Underwood in Crown Point, Indiana. Casey was an Air Force Special Operations Combat Controller, a licensed FAA certified air traffic controller, and a divemaster. He was employed by Gyrodata Inc. – first as a field engineer, then as a part of the Global Response Team, and finally as the Tech Services Coordinator. 

Casey loved anything with wheels and he loved his girls, and one could never be certain which he loved more. His love of wheels started with dirt bikes and he spent years racing motocross; more recently, he spent time riding as a member of the Deacons of Deadwood – a motorcycle club and charitable organization in Houston. He was a hot pepper connoisseur and gardener extraordinaire, as well as a master of the grill. Casey never met a stranger he wouldn’t call a friend and nothing made him happier than interacting with people. 

Casey is survived by his wife, Michelle Underwood (Rodriguez); two daughters, Zoey and Charley; parents, David and Teresa; and sister, Kelly Underwood.

Casey is preceded by grandparents, Arthur and Wilhelmine Cunningham; and Wilbur and Sylvia Underwood.

His funeral mass will be held at Christ the Redeemer Catholic Church on Monday, December 30th at 3:00 pm. Following the service, there will be a motorcycle-led procession to the Tomball VFW for a Celebration of Life.

 

17 responses to “casey charles underwood”

  1. Sharon Avatar
    Sharon

    Perfectly said. Breathe
    I love you

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  2. Karen O’Brien Bynum Avatar
    Karen O’Brien Bynum

    Michelle, My heart breaks for you and the girls I know how hard it is to lose someone you love so much. I will keep you in my thoughts and my prayers. I will always remember Casey is it sweet little boy that used to climb all over me like a jungle gym. God bless you and may your memories sustain you And bring you comfort

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  3. Monica Avatar
    Monica

    Perfect. Casey wouldn’t want you or anyone else to stop living. Keep doing you and know that he loved you mostest. See you soon! # justaphonecallaway

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  4. Lauren Avatar
    Lauren

    💛💛

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  5. Todd Rule Avatar
    Todd Rule

    Well done Michelle. It has been an amazing gift for us to know you, casey, and your family. We love you all!! I have found strength is a song I have listened to when I lost a close friend a recently and now have listed to it multiple times since December 24. I will send to you momentarily.

    Love now and always,

    Lenaine and Todd

    Sent from my iPhone

    Todd A Rule 407-257-7674 toddrule@me.com

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  6. John Avatar
    John

    Casey sounds like an amazing man! So sorry for you and your girls to lose him. Your stories bring him to life and will keep him there forever.

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  7. Claudia B Curtis Avatar
    Claudia B Curtis

    Michelle-I am so very sorry for your loss. My sympathies to you and your family. Claudia Curtis (Kevin Dodge’s aunt)

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  8. Marie Avatar
    Marie

    Keep breathing… I know it is hard… I have walked this path too after losing my soulmate. Know of my abundant prayers and love being sent to you and your family.

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  9. Jessie Howard (Zacur) Avatar
    Jessie Howard (Zacur)

    So sorry for your loss. I went to school with Casey and have many memories of shenanigans and motocross! Prayers for you, the girls, and the rest of the family!

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  10. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Michelle, I don’t know you and cannot know what you are feeling. But I too lost my Scott, a CCT, at the age of 33 to cancer. Please know I am praying for your heart and for your family. Please send me an email if/when you might be ready. I hope I might be able to offer support and understanding. Much love, Lori (Giuliani) Mooar

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  11. Barbara Cromwell Avatar
    Barbara Cromwell

    Michelle I remember much happier days when you you were just a teenager carefree and happy. I never imagined a future full of so much pain and loss. Know that I love you and hold you close to my heart.

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  12. theharpmancometh Avatar

    I am so sorry for you, the girls, Casey’s family and all of the rest of us that loved him. He was all that you say he was and more. As you know I have been where you are now. It is hard, extremely hard And I can’t say it ever gets easier, just more “livable,” if that makes any sense? You are an amazing woman and person and you will live on, even if that seems impossible. Do it for Casey, do it for the girls, do it for yourself…but right now, just realize that this amazing hurt that you feel is directly attributable to the amazing love that you both shared. That’s what makes it so hard. Casey will always live on in our memories of him and in his daughter’s smiles…I love you very much, Michelle. I know you will be strong, but for right now, just be as you need to be…we understand. ❤

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  13. Neil Avatar
    Neil

    From one CCT to another. Rest In Peace Casey.

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  14. NJH Avatar
    NJH

    My heart breaks for you and your daughters. You are in my thoughts. Casey sounds like an absolute gem of a guy. I don’t know y’all but your story touched me. God bless.

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  15. Darryl VanLandingham Avatar
    Darryl VanLandingham

    I did not know Casey but he was a Brother in Arms. My heart goes out to his family. Rest In Peace Brother.

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  16. Trista Avatar
    Trista

    You are an amazing person and I’m so sorry that you and the girls are going through all of this. We are here for you anytime. 💕

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  17. Karen Madrid Avatar
    Karen Madrid

    You and your beautiful girls are in my prayers. ❤️

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